Parenting and its types
A child comes into the world with love and happiness. being a parent is the biggest blessing of God and the biggest responsibility too. Hence we need to be very creative while nurturing our kids. we should plan a baby only when we are physically emotionally mentally economically ready to take on the responsibility of nurturing a child. Parenting is not about perfection but about building a perfect parent-child relationship as it is the most important role in the child's development.
Research has shown that there are some myths regarding parenting some most important of them are,
I have to do what my parents have done.
My child will fulfill my dreams.
The examination result is everything.
I don't need to learn how to raise my kids.
I have become parent now it's done.
Financial responsibility is most important and enough too.
parents are of two types
teaching parents
learning parents
Where do the anger and sorrow come from when the child is born happy and full of love and positive energy researchers have shown that genetic characteristics constitute 49% of a child's behavior whereas the environment constitutes 51% of the child's behavior it all about how we nurture our child.On the basis of this parenting is divided into four types
Uninvolved parenting
parents are not with the kid either they are physically absent or mentally absent low discipline low push low love and focus the child receives from his parents
they lack structure and routine
they are very little connected with the children emotionally
very few rules and expectations are there for the kids.
high Independence and freedom can be seen.
in every life work for self.
children who grow in this type of parenting environment are likely to get into the wrong peers.Addictions, Suicidal Tendencies, detaches from parents easily that may result into immature thoughtless decisions. Lonely aand low self esteem.
Permissive parenting
excess love and affection, lack of discipline and push
In this type of parenting lack Parental authority seen
the Value of Independence a lot. Indulging in children's responsibilities,
they take a lot of effort to make the kids happy and comfortable.
they lack routine and structure parents are over-responsive to Children's needs and want
they impose very few and inconsistent rules
they do not set clear boundaries or enforced them poorly.
children nurtured in this type of parenting environment are generally demanding, and self-centered, they may lack self-control, they may have problems in the relationship and social interactions there may be an inability to handle odd situations and people that we can call Maladjustment problems.
Strict parenting
that is high discipline and push low love and focus
lots of rules and punishments are present in this type of parenting
well-set routine and structure are present.
Only good talk and opinions are accepted and shared.
clear authoritarian leadership of parents is seen in this type of parenting.
lack of warmth to the kid is seen as usually a lack of value of feelings.
So much of criticism for the act and behavior of the child that cannot please others type of parenting.
Parents overcontrol the child through lecturing reminding nagging result of this type of parenting can be the child has low self-esteem exclusively obedient child tries to please others.The child becomes a poor decision maker. Child is usually unhappy, dependent, inability to adapt to the odd situation. Poor social skills. behavioral problems are likely to arise. More prone to mental issues like depression.
Smart Parenting
nurturing environment High discipline and push with high love and focus
structure and routine that is based on principles is implemented and followed by them first
parents set clear limits and act on them, and make children do so
proactive leadership of parents as seen in this type of parenting.
it is safe and easy for the kids to share their feelings with their parents.
every family member respects each other and they have trust in each other.
every person takes responsibility communication is enough and clear among each member of the family.
kids nurtured in this type of parenting environment are happy
they have high self-esteem, they develop social skills and good relationship, they are more independent, securely attached to the parents, they have no chance of mental issues they tend to handle the odds easily, they are self-decision-makers by the time they become wise decision-makers, enough discipline and ability to act upon the situations from their parent's action and behavior good habits and values come naturally from the behavior of the parents and the family members and this type of parenting is needless to tell that they are learning parents as well as loving parents being the best type of parenting they grow responsible kids.
this is not all about the parenting principles parenting will be shared in the next blog
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